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December 8, 2023 / Mondy Dorsainvil

Love is like Cocaine

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Well, well, well. Isn’t this a situation many of us find ourselves in? The man done dumped you, but you still want him back. Why is that you ask? Let me break it down for you.

See, love is a powerful thing, like a big ol’ chocolate cake that just keeps calling your name even after you’ve had a slice or two. Your brain gets all hopped up on those feel-good chemicals, like dopamine and whatnot. It’s like being on a natural high, and your man is the main ingredient in that recipe.

But then, bam! He goes and dumps you, and it’s like someone snatched that cake right out of your hands. Your brain goes into withdrawal mode, jonesing for that sweet, sweet dopamine fix he used to provide. It’s enough to drive a person crazy!

And let’s not forget about those memories. Oh, those beautiful memories! They’re like little snapshots stored away in your brain’s photo album. Every time you flip through those pages, you’re reminded of all the good times you shared together. It’s enough to make you want to hop in the car and go chasing after him, am I right?

But here’s the real kicker: rejection. That’s like a slap in the face to your brain. It’s like getting punched in the gut, and your mind just can’t seem to let it go. It’s always searching for answers, trying to make sense of what went wrong. And who better to provide those answers than the very person who did the rejecting?

And let’s be honest, deep down, we’re all a little bit hopeful, aren’t we? Even after getting our hearts broken, there’s a part of us that still believes things could work out in the end. That little voice in our heads that says, “Maybe, just maybe, he’ll come back, and everything will be alright.”

So, there you have it, folks. Love is a wild ride, and breakups are like trying to get off that roller coaster while it’s still moving. Your brain is all out of whack, and it’s just looking for a way to feel better again. But don’t you worry, with a little time and some self-care, you’ll be back on your feet and ready to take on the world again. Just keep your chin up and remember, there’s always more cake where that came from!

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Mondy Dorsainvil

I'm a Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) with over 12 years of experience in helping individuals, couples, and families navigate the complexities of their lives. Specializing in communication, conflict resolution, intimacy issues, and parenting challenges, I offer evidence-based and culturally sensitive therapeutic interventions tailored to each client’s unique needs. My approach is systemic and strengths-based, focusing on leveraging inherent strengths to achieve personal and relational goals. Committed to professional development, I stay abreast of the latest research and practices in Marriage and Family Therapy, including LGBTQ+ affirmative therapy. Join me here as we explore insightful strategies for positive change and personal growth.

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